Baby , It's Cold Outside

Well, winter, this year has proved to be a very

snowy one !!

It's our first Okanagan Winter and we are loving

the snow falls..

It's been a real change of pace for me, now that

I work at the Day Care and spend time outdoors

with the " After School " group, who love to slide

down the snow banks, build forts with big snow

balls, and throw the occasional snowball at each

other !!

I have also taken some walks down to the lake,

where I live and get some beautiful photos....

It's such a peaceful place here and the snow

cover really makes " postcard " perfect photos.

Why MY son ?

Why ?
Why is it , that my son is married to a woman who is NOT compatible in our family in any way ?
Why does my son seem to love her so ?
Why does my son not see that none of us like her and what she's done to our family ?
Why has my son allowed this woman to keep him from his loving family ?

I could go on and on, but I think you get the picture here !

My son married this woman some 13 or 14 years ago, after a heartbreaking break up
with his first wife, whom he had 2 beautiful sons with....

He meets his current wife, and they are given full custody from the biological mother
of these 2 boys.

She saw this vulnerable man who was looking for a life with his sons, thought, well,
" Hey this guy needs me " !! I can control him and make him see that he really needs me !!

She saw the opportunity of an instant family and began to " brainwash " all of them !!
Brainwash them to think that their biological mother is NOT a good person, who doesnt love
them and can't care for them like she can.... They need to love her and NOT their mother !!
They need to call HER Mommy and their biological mother by her first name !!

Their auntie ( my daughter and sister to my son ) has a " too close " relationship with these boys,
and she needs to end that immediately..... the way she does that is have my son call his sister and say .............

You have a very abnormal relationship with the boys... You treat them like they're your own, and that's not right...We have decided , that as a family, we cannot let the boys go on a camping trip with you and ( her fiance ) at the time.
We are no longer going to allow the boys to spend any time alone with anyone in the family.
They are upset over the break up of their mother and me and we need to show them that they
are loved and that THIS is their home and WE are their family.
I don't want you phoning them, because you tell them you love them and miss them, and that
gets them upset, so for the time being, don't call and don't expect to have them without our whole family together. He said many cruel and hurtful things then, and in the process , severed the once close relationship they had as siblings. ...... It broke MY heart !!

This same senario also happened with me ( the grandmother ) and with their grandfather !!
If we voiced any opinions to them, about how we don't agree with their decisions, then they
would ignore you and they would screen the phone calls, and never answer the phone...

This woman has taken my son and grandsons away from the family ..... She has encouraged my son and my grandsons to be cruel to their family , beyond belief !!

It has been going on for many years now.

The only way I can stay in any contact with them, is to keep my mouth shut..

It's awful and has come to the point now , that these boys are almost grown up, becoming
adults.
We have all been praying each night, that once they are adults, they can leave this home, and come to see their family, and we can tell them the REAL story !!

I never really studied "Brainwashing " and now I am faced with it head on.

They don't allow the family near, they have robbed me of my grandsons......( yes, I could of taken this to court ) but in my heart , I always thought that they wouldn't of carried this on for so long.

This daughter in law of mine , should of been born in the 17th century. She lives in her own little world of obsession !! I hope she can wake up and realize what she is doing !! I am done with her !!

She has changed this man , who is my son, and I know my son is inside that man somewhere !!
I pray that my son will realize that soon !!

I miss my son and grandsons, and I want them back !!

Moni ...............

heading into winter

I woke up this morning to a sunny, but windy day...

I have not been outside yet, but it looks a bit cold out there.

They are predicting snow later today..... I hope it holds off

for as long as possible....

Today I am heading into town to do some shopping and

meeting up with the X husband to have some papers

notarized ....I have not had this much attention from him

since I don't know when....lol

don't get me wrong, its all good. We share 2 wonderful

children together and 6 grandchildren ( the 7th one is in

the making ) !! My X and I got past our upsetting, traumatics

and have been amiable ever since the divorce...

We are both happily married once again, and socialize with

him and his wife on many family occasions... It's quite wonderful

really, and I award us for being strong and mature , for the sake

of our children and grandchildren.... After all, we were each other's

first love, and we will always carry a bond.....

But ...... enough about that !!

Now its' time for me to get ready to venture out in the beautiful

cold, sunny, and windy day....

I wonder what today will bring.....

Enjoy yours :)

Moni

Living in the Cove

I live in a beautiful community , very near the most

beautiful lake, with beautiful landscaped lawns, and

benches to sit on , to take in the beauty of scenery

around me.

I love to sit here in the summer and watch all of the

lake activity.....the boaters, the seadoers, and the

swimmers........ the children playing on the sandy

shores with their pails and shovels...

gathering rocks and making holes in the sand to fill

with water.....

It's a wonderful way to spend my life .....

It's Saturday morning and all is quiet around here.
The only sound I hear at the moment is my dishwasher
situated near me..... where I sit at my laptop reaching
out into the computer world of people and places.

I sip on my coffee and ponder what I should do with my
free time this morning, and when should I get to it ?

Should I have another cup of delicious coffee and enjoy
the serenity ?

I think I shall ......

Talk to me

Moni ((*-*))

I'm Baacck !!

Hello out there, it's Moni !!
I am new on here and would like to introduce
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I need your comments, feedback and conversations
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Moni